This study found that higher past porn consumption significantly predicts acceptance of violence against women—particularly among men with pre-existing sexually aggressive attitudes.
The research is clear—porn is not a harmless pastime, especially when it's hurting a romantic partner. It's okay to not be okay with porn in your relationship.
If a scientist told you the most important quality to look for in a partner in order to ensure a happy, lifelong relationship, would you pay attention?
Shame can carry a discouraging weight that makes it impossible for some to change, forgive, or progress. Here's how shame harms lives affected by porn.