“The More Real the Pain, the More Views I Got”: Real Stories from a Former BDSM Porn Performer Article
“The more real my pain was, the more I cried from the depth of my depths, the more abuse I took, the more my videos were watched.”
“The more real my pain was, the more I cried from the depth of my depths, the more abuse I took, the more my videos were watched.”
If the consumer knew for an absolute certainty that this pornography was made free of exploitation, would watching it still be harmful?
We must talk about the way violent materials depicting the abuse of women and girls are becoming the norm. Actually not the norm, the goal.
“I didn’t stop watching porn for a relationship, and no one had to convince me to stop. I stopped watching for me and my well-being.”
Any of these things or a combination of them could mean something entirely unrelated to porn, but here are six possible signs that porn may be affecting your relationship.
Chris Rock and his wife of 16 years divorced not long ago, and in his stand-up special, he cites porn as a big reason why.
Porn site xHamster reportedly uses volunteers to help the site’s content moderation efforts. The entry requirements are low, support is minimal, and the collection of volunteers is questionable at best.
We don’t need to tear other humans down to give visibility to the proven harmful effects of pornography, even if someone is a performer.
“I chose to give up porn, in part, because of the growing trend of extreme and disturbing sexual content to web visitors. Today, it’s no longer a trend. Extreme pornography is here to stay.”
“The industry promised me safety because ‘we test every 28 days.’ However, just because there’s testing doesn’t mean you’re safe as a performer.”
As an organization, we have never intended the phrase “Porn Kills Love” to be shaming. Helping people recognize that porn is harmful isn’t about shaming them, it’s about inviting them to truly consider how porn impacts their life.
There is actually no formal system for reporting abuse in the porn industry. What’s worse? Those who report abuse publicly are often blacklisted.