“In December, I found four years’ worth of porn and other inappropriate content on his computer. And that was it. The final straw.”
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“She was heartbroken to find that I had been doing something that betrayed her trust in me and made her feel inadequate. I was disgusted by what I had done and swore to never do it again.”
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“I don’t have many regrets in my life, but if I’m being honest, I do have just one. I regret letting porn overtake my life and my time. I can’t begin to describe how much I want the last decade back.”
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“Last month, I finally had the calm and confidence in my heart to talk to him.”
“Despite my hurt, I know he’s not watching porn because he believes I’m not enough. He watches because porn can be addicting. He knows it is hurtful, and I don’t even think he wants to, honestly.”
Having this issue become a national conversation, highlighted by a publication as renowned as TIME, is a huge step forward for the movement.
