Rhiannon was 13 when she was sexually assaulted by a perpetrator in her home. The fake modeling scout found Rhiannon online and groomed her to send images of herself only the day before the attack. Police later found images of the assault on the perpetrator’s computer.
Often, sexual images taken by a young person and sent to who they consider a “friend” online, are posted online without their consent. This is a crime in itself.
In Rhiannon’s case, she felt that if someone saw her images online, recognized that she was under 18, and reported them, perhaps the assault could have been avoided.
“In my situation, if the images that I’d sent to the perpetrator that evening had been reported and I was identified, I could have been safeguarded before the man came to my house,” Rhiannon said. “And that would have prevented me from being sexually assaulted.”
Rhiannon bravely spoke about her experience to the International Watch Foundation (IWF), a charity that works with law enforcement all over the world to remove child abuse material from the internet.
New data from IWF revealed that about a third of sexual images or videos of minors online are self-generated. Young people are increasingly groomed to send selfies or perform for a webcam. They are still victims, even when they are controlling the camera.
In response to the growing epidemic of online sexual abuse, particularly of young people, IWF created an easy and anonymous way for anyone to report explicit images of someone who may be underage.
Hopefully these efforts can prevent future abuse of young people—like Rhiannon—who need protection.
A “coercive and manipulative” relationship
A record 260,400 web pages were reported to IWF in 2019 and about half showed child sexual abuse material. Each page hosts thousands of files and so the number of images is likely in the millions.
A recent report from IWF shows that of the massive number of images reported, self-generated sexually explicit images and videos of minors make up one third. These selfies are mostly of girls with three quarters being between 11 and 13 years old.
Often, we hear the unhelpful suggestion that if girls don’t want their images online then they just shouldn’t take them, but the blame only belongs to the perpetrators behind the messages manipulating young girls to perform.
Susie Hargreaves CEO of IWF explained that these girls are victims in a “terribly coercive and manipulative relationship.” She said they are often groomed, coerced, and tricked into performing sexually for webcam shows.
“Online sexual abuse is not a victimless crime,” said Tink Palmer Chief Executive of the Marie Collins Foundation. “The children in these images and videos are real and they are harmed every time the content is viewed and shared.”
See it? Report it!
The results of a 2019 survey commissioned for the BBC to understand the porn habits of British young-adults (18-25 years old) revealed that 77% of men had watched explicit content within the past month. Acknowledging that it’s normalized and common to do so, IWF partnered with the Marie Collins Foundation, a charity supporting victims of online sexual abuse, to encourage young men to report under-age content.
The idea was to create online films to educate regular guys on the laws of viewing child sexual abuse material. For starters, an individual can be prosecuted for creating, sharing, and possessing sexual images of a minor. The excuse that the girl or boy “looked older” doesn’t cut it.
Most importantly, both organizations are pushing for these men to anonymously report any image or video they think might include a minor.
“Young men might be at risk of stumbling across this content, as a result of having unprecedented access to sexual content online,” Susie Hargreaves said. “But they can also be the heroes that help us save many more victims of child sexual abuse.”
Obviously, there are many reasons why watching any porn isn’t a healthy pastime, even if it is normalized in our culture. But it’s worth acknowledging that porn—even the illicit kind—is found all across the internet, not just porn sites.
No matter where your clicks may take you, even if it is a choice that’s regretted later, you can still stand up against abusive material. There’s no shame, just report it.
“I know first-hand what it is like to suffer sexual abuse and the long-term impact it can have on a young person,” Rhiannon said. “My message to anyone who comes across online content that they suspect is of someone under-18 is to do the right thing and report it. You could help safeguard that child and save them from further serious harm.”
What about sexting?
Sexting is a huge phenomenon of modern-day dating and the social lives of adolescents everywhere. It’s fairly common to have nude pics or explicit videos sent directly to teens. Often that content is self-generated, but it’s not the same as the self-generated content created and shared through grooming and coercion, though it is still legally defined in the US as “child porn” if the creators are under the age of 18.
The problem is, whether these images were sent because of coercion or not, they still end up on sites for the world to see. Maybe you see an image online that looks like it could have been a sexy pic sent to a partner, but there’s no way of knowing the back story. It could be proof of past abuse, it could be current abuse, it could be someone who is underage.
So what is expected of you when you’re sent a sext, or requested a pic of yourself sans clothing and you’re a minor? For starters, it’s never up to us to judge or shame the person featured in the photo or video. As we’ve pointed out, you don’t know the full story. Secondly, don’t forward any content to another person, tell a trusted adult what happened.
To report an incident involving the possession, distribution, receipt, or production of child pornography, file a report on the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC)’s website at www.cybertipline.com, or call 1-800-843-5678.