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Since 2009, we've given visibility to research and personal accounts demonstrating how pornography can negatively impact individuals, relationships, and society. Through this grassroots movement, millions of people have found hope and freedom. We couldn't do this without Fighters like you!

I’ve struggled with porn addiction since age 12. I’m finally choosing to let my shame go. Porn is very prevalent in Icelandic society, but its negative effects are rarely, if ever, discussed. People view it as perfectly normal. Therapists never mention it as an issue, and I’ve never heard an Icelandic person admit they have a problem with porn, so I felt like I was the only one. Hearing personal accounts from FTND and studying the research has been so refreshing, knowing that I am not alone.

In high school, I gave a speech explaining porn stats I got from your website. The teacher told me afterwards she’d learned a lot and wished everyone in school could hear that message. I think people here would agree, but they just don’t know. So I wanted to thank you, especially for your podcast which has been a way for me to be surrounded by light and strength. You reach far outside the US, and have at least one supporter in Iceland. Much love.

Dec 2021

I want to thank you for all the work you have been doing. At the beginning of last year, I got conscious about the real problem of pornography, and since then, I have been on a continuous fight. With wins and fails on quitting porn forever, I’m still on a long journey, but am much closer to the final objective. Soon I will finally be free, achieve the best version of myself, and discover true love.

Jun 2021

I love and have benefited greatly in the work you guys do, in raising awarness on the dangers of pornography addiction, and its adverse effects on families and communities. Keep it up!

Jul 2025

I love what you guys do. Especially love the podcast, it’s normalizing and encouraging to keep up the fight.

Jun 2023

Thank YOU ALL for never backing down!!! Y’all have been inspiring guys like me during this past decade! Thank you!

Mar 2020

Dear FTND, I just wanted to say thank you. I am a normal tenth-grade girl who was told my whole life that porn was “gross and dirty.” I wanted to understand outside of my own context why it was “bad.” Your website has provided me with the information I needed to justify why I took my stand against pornography. In English class, I was able to speak for 6 minutes about something; I chose the dangers of porn. It wasn’t easy, but my heart breaks for this generation of boys and girls who don’t understand why they can’t seem to have functional relationships. I wanted to do something about it. I have had multiple conversations after my speech, and hope that at least one person began to think about the potential consequences of porn. This hasn’t been easy to talk about it, but having the right information definitely made it easier. Thank you.

Jul 2020

I just wanted to tell you thanks! You guys were my inspiration for a speech I had to give in my public speaking class! I was super passionate about the harmful effects of porn, and it was cool to see the faces change from when I first introduced my topic to my very last sentence. Keep doing great work!

Dec 2018

Hi! After coming across your page and my boyfriend having erectile dysfunction (at 23!), we had a talk last summer about porn! He’s said he can see sexual dysfunction being a side effect and didn’t know porn could cause these things. He’s been laying off and things have improved so so much. The discussion guide really helped! So, thank you!

Mar 2019

Hello, it’s been 7 months since I turned away from porn. My sex life has improved a lot and now I enjoy my relationship with my girlfriend. I thank you a lot for the support and encouragement you showed to me during my battle against porn. You have all my gratitude.

Nov 2018

I always look forward to the next podcast of ‘Consider Before Consuming’—this is truly a great initiative. The information, the stories, and the lessons learned here are so helpful. Thank you guys for all that you do!

Nov 2024

I have a porn kills love Tattoo. I own almost every shirt that you guys have come out with. I speak out against the harms of pornography all the time. I wear my porn kills Love attire everywhere. I used to donate monthly. I love what you guys are doing! I have a deep passion for sharing my knowledge about the harms of pornography! When I was young, I was sexually abused by my stepdad who would force me to watch porn with him. That is just one of the many life experiences that have made me hate pornography passionately, the way that I do. My room is covered in anti-pornography posters. I have stickers upon stickers. I ordered a bunch of those leaflets that you guys used to have and I give them to people sometimes. I love you guys. Thanks for sharing.

Dec 2025

Amazing first episode. It sparked a lot of thoughts and emotions in my brain. It made me feel refreshed, and that I can eventually overcome my addiction to porn.

Nov 2021