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How the Realism of VR Porn Can Fuel Loneliness in Consumers

VR porn promises a fantasy world, but it is just that. Relying on sight and sound provides a sense of immersion, but it cannot (at least not yet) stimulate your other senses.

Since the boom of internet porn with its influx of free amateur videos, established porn production companies have been searching for ways to come up with new, unique products they can cash in on. Normally, the porn industry is thought of as an innovator—a first adopter of a new technology, like in the case of production companies profiting off of VHS tapes.

No doubt porn is more popular and accepted than ever, but free internet porn sort of stabbed the main production companies in the back, pirating their content and posting it free of charge. Now, as virtual reality technology has progressed, producers, directors, and performers alike have predicted it to be the next big thing to hit the porn industry—but this time, as a profitable alternative to free porn tubes.

Cashing in on VR tech

One company to capitalize on the rising popularity of VR porn videos is Naughty America. Since releasing their first VR porn video in 2015, they noticed VR porn consumers are more willing to actually pay for content. They estimated one in every 1,500 viewers of traditional 2D porn scenes become paying customers while one in 167 visitors to the VR preview pages subscribed.

This isn’t the price of a Netflix subscription either. Customers pay either $25 a month for unlimited videos or three times that for a year. Even still, subscriptions to the website grew 55% in 2016 with revenue for the site overall increasing by more than 40%.

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This is one of many examples of the current excitement around VR porn. Consider how, in 2016, Japan’s first VR porn festival was shutdown due to overcrowding. Additionally, Piper Jaffray, an investment bank, estimates VR porn to grow into a $1 billion industry by 2020.

Skeptics still remain. Will VR porn bring about another so-called “Golden Age of Porn” after the success of the 60s and 70s, or will it fizzle out faster than Pokémon Go? Whether or not it lasts, what we can say is that VR porn is starting to shake things up.

In search of a feeling

Virtual reality has been called the “ultimate empathy machine” for its ability to immerse a person into a different world and another person’s experience. For example, film producer Chris Milk created a VR film that puts the viewer inside a Syrian refugee camp to witness a day in the life of a 12-year-old refugee girl.

While these types of films represent an exciting frontier, porn is really where the major growth in virtual reality is headed. While more research is being done to determine virtual reality’s ability to improve a person’s empathy, this isn’t exactly the purpose of VR porn.

VR porn tries to place the consumer right in the action, letting them watch as a spectator or shift to point of view setting and embody the actions of a virtual performer. It is all in an effort to stimulate a reaction. As Adam Sutra, CEO of CamasutraVR said, “Everyone wants to feel something.”

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But remember, porn is an escalating behavior. The more someone watches, the less satisfied they’ll be with the content, pushing a consumer toward more extreme content. VR porn claims to offer a new, all-encompassing experience without limitations, but of course, there is more to the story.

Writer Susannah Breslin met with Adam Sutra to test out his VR porn technology and wrote of her experience touching one of the performers in the video.

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“The flesh depressed. She looked real, but I couldn’t feel her.”

VR porn promises a fantasy world, but it is just that. Relying on sight and sound provides a sense of immersion, but it cannot (at least not yet) stimulate your other senses. Your brain may imagine you can physically feel the warmth of a person’s hand, but it is merely imagining.

There’s irony in humans searching for a “feeling,” a sense of connection, but then being distracted by a medium that cannot provide a sensation in your fingertips. What you do feel in VR porn is your brain reacting, over-stimulating, but it is not a feeling of love or intimacy we crave. It cannot replace the real closeness of a relationship, or authenticity of another person.

Real relationships are better

Porn portrays people as little more than objects with the sole purpose of giving the consumer pleasure. The kind of “intimacy” porn offers is nothing more than sexual stimulation.

Real human connection offers so much more. Real connection—whether with friends, family, or a romantic partner—is about what we give, not just what we get. It’s other-centered, not self-centered. Connection is understanding someone at a level porn never attempts. It’s seeing yourself through another’s eyes, and caring about others and for yourself.

It’s the opposite of loneliness. It’s love.

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If you have been struggling to quit an unwanted porn habit, please know that you’re not alone. It can feel really lonely and frustrating, but there is hope.

While research shows that consuming porn can fuel the cycle of loneliness, research also shows that it is possible to overcome a porn habit and its negative effects.Young K. S. (2013). Treatment outcomes using CBT-IA with Internet-addicted patients. Journal of behavioral addictions, 2(4), 209–215. https://doi.org/10.1556/JBA.2.2013.4.3COPY Nathanson, A. (2021). Psychotherapy with young people addicted to internet pornography. Psychoanal.Study Child, 74(1), 160-173. doi:10.1080/00797308.2020.1859286COPY  According to one study of individuals trying to quit porn, researchers found that shame actually predicted increased pornography consumption while guilt predicted sustainable change.Gilliland, R., South, M., Carpenter, B. N., & Hardy, S. A. (2011). The roles of shame and guilt in hypersexual behavior. 18(1), 12-29. doi:10.1080/10720162.2011.551182COPY 

So if you’re trying to give up porn, be kind to yourself and be patient with your progress. Like anything, it takes time for the brain to recover, but daily efforts make a big difference in the long run.

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