An Open Letter From a Girl Whose Boyfriend Struggles with Porn Article
FTND note: The aim of this post is to challenge the shaming narrative that can happen in this fight against porn, and offer up an alternative narrative via…
FTND note: The aim of this post is to challenge the shaming narrative that can happen in this fight against porn, and offer up an alternative narrative via…
The reality of the digital age that we live in is that internet porn is more vast and varied than just about anything else that can be found online.
“It was like new glasses were put on me which showed me how pornography was impacting literally every area of my life. It affected the way I viewed love.”
“I talked to my friends about having open conversations about porn on campus. The girls were more open to the idea, the guys made comments like, ‘Porn is to be watched not to be talked about.'”
Experts say violent pornography is influencing hundreds of children to act out the aggressive, hardcore scenes they see online.
“His mother wants him to explore any and all questions about girls and sex. I don’t want him to see porn, especially as a source of info. What do I do?”
“I found that when I was lying next to a girl, I just wouldn’t be horny at all, despite being attracted to the girl and wanting to have sex with her.”
“This was the man that was supposed to protect me from predators, and from the world…yet instead, I felt I needed to protect myself from him.”
Consider this: understanding the function of chemicals in the most powerful sex organ in the body—the brain—can be a game-changer for those who consume porn. If you’ve…
“When the hardcore stuff stopped doing it for me, I started to search for simulated rape videos. When they ran their course, I tried to find actual rape videos.”
Dear FTND, I wanted to start this note by saying thank you. Because of you, your articles, your advocacy, and speaking out about pornography, I am overcoming…
Like most people, I was exposed to porn at an early age. My family was verbally and emotionally abusive…porn became my substitute, and my coping mechanism.