“This is what porn did for me. It reduced me to feeling ashamed of myself because I didn’t have the ‘confidence’ to hurt or humiliate on men for money.”

“Things about porn that used to excite me and turn me on, do nothing but disgust me now. I finally feel clean from watching all that stuff for a decade.”

“Did I feel like this when I was addicted to porn? Did I feel like I wanted to be with porn, love it and marry it? Did porn give me this giddy feeling? NO.”

“I was told I wouldn’t make it very far in porn because I was so ‘average.’ Well, except that I was a preschool teacher looking for a new career in porn.”

“I was 18 when I started dating… But she didn’t fulfill my fantasies like pornography did. She didn’t make me feel as good as pornography did.”

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“I can’t tell you all how much happier I am since I’ve stopped watching porn…I was so unhappy with my life. It’s a drug, no doubt about it. “

“I quickly became obsessed with pleasing my boyfriend. I would watch all the porn he watched and study it like a textbook.”

“I realize that porn led me to weird, even dangerous, scenarios. It felt cool at the time, but at 14, I’d click from porn to chat rooms, where I’d connect with men much older than me.”

After the attack and murder of this woman was widely publicized, within days, her name became the number one search term on one of the world’s largest porn sites.

Watch these passionate advocates actually have a civil, productive conversation about porn and take notes the next time you’re talking about porn’s harms with someone.