How My Obsession with Extreme Porn Impacts What Arouses Me Article
“I still have a sexual appetite. But I’m not sexually aroused and it’s not because he’s some ugly potato, it’s because of the lingering effects of watching so much extreme porn.”
“I still have a sexual appetite. But I’m not sexually aroused and it’s not because he’s some ugly potato, it’s because of the lingering effects of watching so much extreme porn.”
Sex was always a very mechanical and unloving act. He always treated me like one of these girls that he saw on his computer… ‘Normal’ sex could never satisfy or even arouse him.
“I felt inferior, old, ugly, unwanted, and crazy for being so upset. I confided in a friend. She said everyone watches porn and maybe I wasn’t giving him enough sex. I KNEW that wasn’t true.”
How do you tell your partner? Should you tell them? How do you know what to say? We’re going to go over some tips so you feel more comfortable sharing your struggle.
“I struggle every day to look at my husband in the eyes. But I know one thing—I love him, I love him deeply and I won’t allow porn to destroy our life.”
“I have felt crushed and devastated ever since I found out. I feel like I can never trust her when she’s home alone. I don’t know what to do anymore.”
This list can help you know what to say when you’re talking to someone about something as personal as recovery from a porn habit.
The main reasons given in the study for young people having anal sex were that men wanted to copy what they saw in pornography.
Solid relationships are built on the ability to talk about things that matter to both partners. This includes talking with your significant other about porn.
Because of reputable research, we can look past preconceived notions about if porn is “good” or “bad.” There are solid facts that can tell us a more clear answer, and as they stand, it isn’t good news for our porn-obsessed society.
As an organization, we have never intended the phrase “Porn Kills Love” to be shaming. Helping people recognize that porn is harmful isn’t about shaming them, it’s about inviting them to truly consider how porn impacts their life.
In reality, porn doesn’t add any lasting health or positivity to consumers’ lives, relationships, or the world. If you’re yet to be convinced, consider these points before consuming.